A while ago (2021-08-16) someone asked me "Why not be the waifu? Or who is your waifu?". Well that's a deep rabbit hole, and I don't have any clear answers.
You mean if I was waifu'ing myself? Or I'm just picking my favourite existing waifu? Both.
Oh okay then.
Become the waifu
If I were waifu'ing myself I think I'd just follow the kinds of things I already like IRL; myself as an avatar is closely related to my sense of self. So for me that means one piece dresses and OL-type fashion.
Who are your waifus
Somewhere in the middle
Kurisu: https://danbooru.donmai.us/posts/1873010 (incidentally favourite cosplay to date)
- Sakuya because I like maids
Strong waifus (aspirational I guess?)
Waifu for aesthetic reasons
Kaede Takagaki: https://danbooru.donmai.us/posts/4005292
- Megurine Luka (mostly the nee-san vibe)